FROM NIGHT STALKERS 160th SOAR(A)
ENDURING FREEDOM MEMORIAL
(http://www.nightstalkers.com/enduring_freedom/memorial/ssg_prosser/index.html)
FRAZIER PARK,
Calif. — To friends who knew him when he starred on the high
school football team and worked at the local lumber store, it seemed
all but inevitable that Staff Sgt. Brian Cody Prosser would grow up to
be a war hero.
"When he went into the Army that was his dream, to become an Army
Ranger," Glenn Wilson, a former football buddy, recalled.
Prosser, 28, was one of the three elite Special Forces soldiers killed
in Afghanistan Wednesday when a bomb missed its Taliban target and
landed about 100 yards from them. Twenty others were wounded in the
worst "friendly fire" accident of the war.
The death left this small town nestled in the mountains of Los Padres
National Forest devastated but at the same time bursting with pride to
have known a man hailed as a hero.
"He was a leader, a warrior and proud to be a soldier," Prosser's
22-year-old brother, Jarudd Prosser, said by phone from his Frazier
Park home. "He's my role model."
Prosser lived in nearby Bakersfield with his wife, Shawna. But the
family home for years has been located in Frazier Park, a tiny, bucolic
mountain town with an old-fashioned main street that appears still
anchored in 1950s America.
A popular day-trip destination with Los Angeles residents 50 miles
away, it sits at an elevation ranging from 4,000 to 6,000 feet. It and
several surrounding small communities are home to about 8,400 residents.
"This whole community is affected. The Prosser name is pretty renowned
here," said Carla Johnston, who said she has known Prosser all his life
and whose husband, Joshua, attended Maricopa High School with him.
It was there that Prosser was captain of the football team. After
school, he worked at Alpine Lumber.
"He was quite a character," Jean Miller, the store's manager, recalled
with a laugh. "He had a sense of humor."
Prosser's father, also named Brian, ran his own welding business in
Frazier Park at one time.
As friends dropped by to offer condolences to the soldier's mother and
father, Ventura County sheriff's deputies quickly blocked off access to
outsiders to the family's rambling, ranch-style home, which is situated
a half mile off the nearest road. Outside is a large sign, erected in
happier times, that welcomes visitors to "Prosser Country."
"We're dealing with it as a family," a man who identified himself as
Prosser's youngest brother told an Associated Press reporter before a
sheriff's deputy ordered her off the property. "I know time heals all
wounds, but I think over time it's just going to get worse."
One of four brothers, Prosser joined the Army soon after graduating
high school.
"I think of him as a jock and someone who would go into the military
and serve his country well, Jeff Richardson, 32, recalled fondly over a
drink at the town tavern Wednesday night. "His family members are all
upstanding Americans."
Jarudd Prosser said the family knew the risks involved, adding that as
soon he learned his brother was shipping out he made it a point to tell
him how he felt about him.
"In a war, people die," he said Wednesday. "It puts a lot of things in
perspective. It really makes me think when you care about someone, you
have to tell them that. When I heard he was going overseas, I left
nothing unsaid."
The other soldiers killed Wednesday were identified as Master Sgt.
Jefferson Donald Davis, 39, of Watauga, Tenn., and Sgt. 1st Class
Daniel Petithory, 32, of Cheshire, Mass.
All were members of the Army's 3rd Battalion, 5th Special Forces Group,
stationed at Fort Campbell, Ky.
Gov. Gray Davis issued a statement Wednesday night praising each of
them.
"These men served their country valiantly," he said. "They made the
supreme sacrifice for our freedoms."
KILLED SOLDIER BURIED AT ARLINGTON
From Arlington
National Cemetery Website
(http://www.arlingtoncemetery.net/bcprosser.htm)
Monday
December 17, 2001
Staff Sergeant
Brian "Cody'' Prosser, one of three Army Green Berets killed by an
errant U.S. bomb in Afghanistan was remembered Monday as "the best of
the best'' who gave his life doing what he loved - serving his country.
"Cody is a
hero and I will love and miss him for the rest of my life,'' said his
widow, Shawna, after his burial at Arlington National Cemetery.
Prosser,
28, from Frazier Park, California, was killed December 5 when a U.S.
bomb carrying 2,000 pounds of explosives missed its target and landed
100 yards from his team's position north of Kandahar.
Master
Segeant Jefferson Donald Davis, 39, of Watauga, Tennessee, and Sergeant
First Class Daniel Petithory of Cheshire, Massachusetts, also were
killed. Twenty U.S. troops were injured.
Three of
Prosser's colleagues who were hurt in the incident attended Monday's
ceremony in wheelchairs, wrapped in blankets to shield them from the
cold and wind. The Pentagon, under construction following the terrorist
attacks in September, loomed in the background.
During the
ceremony, Prosser's widow, mother and father were presented American
flags and a bugler played "Taps.''
"Cody was
the best of the best,'' his widow said after the ceremony. "I know that
he would want me to say thank you to this great country that he was so
willing and honored to serve.''
She
recalled the last conversation with her husband before he left for the
Middle East.
"He told me
that he wasn't scared, that he was ready, and over there was where he
needed to be,'' she said. ``I am so proud of my husband because he was
doing what he loved to do.''
Mrs.
Prosser described the "overwhelming pain'' she has felt since her
husband's death and told reporters she had not wanted to share her
grief with anyone but family and close friends.
"As each
day has passed, I have seen so much generosity and kindness from so
many people across our great country,'' she said.
Prosser,
who was awarded the Bronze Star and Purple Heart medals posthumously,
also was honored at a ceremony last week at Fort Campbell, Kentucky.
NATIONAL
VETERANS FOUNDATION:
THE BRIAN CODY PROSSER MEMORIAL SCHOLARSHIP
(http://www.nvf.org/prosser/)
The Brian “Cody” Prosser Memorial
Scholarship
Family and friends of Brian “Cody”
Prosser have announced the creation of the Brian “Cody” Prosser
Memorial Scholarship Fund in remembrance of Staff Sergeant Prosser’s
contribution to the war on terrorism. Cody, a 28-year-old Staff
Sergeant in the Army’s Green Beret Special Forces, was one of three
soldiers killed by a U.S. friendly fire incident in Afghanistan on
December 5th, 2001.
Friends, family and military
servicemen alike recall Prosser, a posthumous recipient of the bronze
star medal, as an All-American archetype. The unfortunate news of his
death was exceptionally startling to the residents of Frazier Park, CA,
Prosser’s hometown. “When you go to war, you know there’s a chance of
you dying,” said Ken Swope, a friend of Prosser’s. “But when it’s
friendly fire, it’s not right. I know it’s a mistake, but it doesn’t
make it any easier.”